All about me

Once you become a mom, it is very easy to forget about yourself. The little guy in my life needs a lot from me right now, so my attention is often centered around making sure he gets what he needs. Not to mention the fact that he is amazing! I am constantly amused and amazed by my child. I like to spend my time and attention interacting with him. So much of my waking thoughts are about what I can do to make his life better, his needs and wants.

But sometimes I need to spend a little time thinking about me too.

Today is my birthday :) After A's first Christmas and birthday, it just didn't seem overly important this year, nor did it really last year. Last year I did get a cake! I can't believe how much has changed in the last year...

It is still important to celebrate me. Even if it doesn't feel like it. Even if I am not excited about getting older. I need to remember me. As all moms do. 

I was planning on taking half a day and pampering myself a little, maybe getting a massage. But work intrudes, and I can't take the time off after all. So I will have to try and remember to make some time for myself soon.

I also want to thank my own mom. Thank you for giving birth to me, raising me, and giving me the tools to make this wonderful life I lead. I now appreciate so much more what you have given me. We always celebrate the person who was born on their birthday, but not actually the person who gave birth to us! So thank you!